MALE SEJATI

One young woman said to the mother.
Mother, sincere man that like?

His mother surprised. He looked amazed at the children outside pengamatannya who has become the lovely girl. Stunned, because time did not want to wait. It's a new yesterday was still a child beside ngompol so smelly mattress pesing. Suddenly he is only now that women have a lot of questions.

First pair of eyes that often belekan that, I now highlight the car lights on dark nights. Sinarnya so sharp. Surrounding participate so reflective. However, the existing road in front of the nose itself, which he of the medium, still appear foggy. Life is a big secret that is not only experienced in the story in the experience of others, because it must be your own.

Why do you ask that, son?
For I want to know.
And after the year?
I do not know.

Girls face becomes red. Understand her mother, because he was once young and want to ask the same thing to her mother, but does not dare. Feeling that time is never discussed, especially concerning love. Even if tried, the answer appears often misleading. Because parents tend to hide a secret life from her children who deems not quite ready for the experience. Now everything has changed. The children want to know that not only must they know, but all of them. Including the first no-no. They were pleased at the danger.
Interesting after the breath, the mother was the daughter's head and whisper.

Do not be ashamed, my son. A secret will not untangle himself, if you do not own to open it. A mystery begins with curiosity, even if in fact you already know. Just because you have never experienced themselves, only a knowledge of foreign portrait of books you read. Many parents hide it, because that knowledge will not need to make your life may be very heavy and broken turn ago, so you will never get to the destination. But the mother does not like that. Mother believes the era of giving you the ability to confront other dangers that are also different. So the mother will be told. But what you ready to accept the truth even if it is not fun?
Purpose mother?
Man sejati son, may not be as you imagine.
Why not?

For in the dream, you have dikacaukan by all kinds of expectations from the brim to the disappointment of many men who never meet the expectations of women. There is only a feeling keki.
Is that wrong?

Mother will not talk about right or wrong. Mother just want you to separate between the feelings and thoughts. Between expectations and reality.

I always cut it. The hope is that we want something that happens often in conflict with what is in front of and eye. Hope to be illusion, it only shadow of the heart. I understand that once. But what one shadow? Because the shadow that we know is that the sun, so that owing to the darkness, we can see the parts that light be, things that should be obvious that we receive, even if it conflicts with expectations.
His mother smiled.
So you still remember all the mothers say?
Why not?
Then you are ready to see reality?
I am ready. I look forward to hearing more. Show how men are sincere.

Memejamkan mother's eyes. It was as if all the elements into everywhere, to build a loop of clear and concrete.

Men of sterling, and then my son said, but he is ... not continue.
Is?
Is a man of sterling.
Ah, Mrs. ngeledek not so, I am serious, I am not patient.

Good, Mrs. attempt so that you only really hear the words that every mother will submit. So look very seriously and do not cut, because men can not be bred only spoken with one sentence. Men's sincere son, while the mother looked up to the front, as if he saw men that are over-bred in the air about penjelmaannya in words.
Men are sincere ...
Men who brave?

Wrong! Kan Searched mother says, do not interrupt! Men's called male-bred, not only because he was brave! Concrete wall is also strong, but not the man just because he is sincere is not perforated by bullet by not teetery earthquake is not perforated by scratching the tsunami, but he must be flexible and soulless. Grow, develop and even change, as well as you.
O ya?

Not as powerful, nor as handsome men to be sincere. A man does not become men because only pure rock-resistant body, because of beautiful and ideal proportion. A man does not by itself become a man because he was sincere great, superior, always a winner, brave and willing sacrifice. A man has not become a man just because he is sincere wealthy, good, wise, smart talk, believe, interesting, diligent prayer, friendly, not arrogant, not gossipy, humble, full of understanding, authoritative, jago make , yield smart, full of tolerance, always respect other people, have a position, rank or higher have a lot of charisma and intellect. A man does not become a man just because he is sincere meritorious, useful, helpful, honest, shrewd, smart or genius. A man even though he is an idol that you admire, a leader, a hero, a pioneer, innovator and rebel, even a wise-wise, does not automatically make him a sincere man!
If so what is?

A man is a sincere view that a reasonable view, listen to them hear, feel it is appropriate, be thought reasonable to think, to read a reasonable read, and have made a reasonable, therefore, think that he be thought worthy, who deserves behave possible and that life should be life.
Young woman is taken aback.
Only that?
A man is a sincere man of one word with the act!
People consistent?
More than that!
A man who can be trusted?
Everything!
Young woman is stunned.

What is more than one word and deed? Heartfelt and everything? Ahh! Memejamkan the young woman's eyes, as if trying to imagine all that nature mengkristal to be her man and then memeluknya. He enjoys lamunannya not afford to continue ngomong again. Audible groan from the mouth small, impressed, and worshipful longing. He orgasme inner experience.

Ahhhhhhh, gumannya continue to get a puncture as favors. I love him in the first presentment. I want to meet men like that. Say where can I find men like that pure, Mother?

Mother did not reply. He just looked like a child gadisnya pity. So that young women grow hair.
Where can I acquainted with him?
For what?

Because I would say hold the line, that I mencintainya. I will not be timid to declare, I wish him pacarku to be, mempelaiku, is the father of daughters, grandchildren, mother and grandchildren. Let him into my life, if a staff later I are old. Being a person who will be memijit leg if semutan, a person who revere shatter my heart and that are shriveled. I wake in the morning if I am lazy and can not afford to move again. I will meminangnya to be my husband, so I will not hesitate to become a son-merayunya Mother, of our generation, why not, I will merebutnya, I will fight to have them.
Dada was a young woman spotty.

What one now women choose men to be the husband, after for centuries we women are only the people who turn left waiting?
Young women was to open his eyes. Eyeball was garish-flash. He holds the hands of his mother.
Mother says quickly, where can I find the men?
Mother sigh heavily. Girls are surprised.
Why Mother's draw breath throughout it?
Because you ask for something that is not possible, unfortunately.
What? Not possible?
Yes.
Why?
Because men sejati such there is no more above the world.
Oh, the young woman surprised.
There is no more?
Have been exhausted.
Lord, exhausted? Why?
Men's pure like that is all vanish, since your father died.
Young women are closing the mouth, because the split disappointed.
Disappear already?

Yes. Now that there are only men who can not be held longer mouth. Overall only loudmouth. Actors three classes. Cap all tempe. Many men are strong, smart, rich, have power and can do anything, but everything can not be trusted. No more men bred son. They marry carpenters, carpenters ngibul, all basket herbal medicine, do not want the child, let alone wash dalammu trousers, their prey and so the tiger can have what you want. If you are old and not more diligent minister, they do not shrink from menggebuki punish women who had become her mother. No more men bred again, son. So when you still miss male bred, you will become a vestal. Better stop dreaming that it is not useful.
The pensive girl. Faces seem very glum.
So there is no more hope, with the voice gag gumamnya despair. There is no hope anymore. If so I am broken-hearted.
Broken-hearted?
Yes. I despair.
Why must despair?
Because what's the longer I live, if there is no male-bred?
Her mother returned the child her head, and smiled.

You are too young, too much to read books and sit behind the desk. Close the book now and stand up from the chair that you have the claw. Exit, hirup the air fresh, perspective lagit blue and green leaves. There are lily white blooms are rollicking in the fence, not a world as you imagine in kamarmu. Lifestyle sekotor not be told by the books in perpustakaanmu although it is not seindah dream-mimpimu. My son out, find someone in there, and tegur and talk! Do not ngumpet here!
I do not ngumpet!
Do not run!
Who run?
Coop itself is running or ngumpet. Get out!
Exit to where?
To the road! Mother points to the direction the door opens. Interact with many people.
Girls that termangu.
For what? In a home more comfortable?
So if you want to be kuper frog!
But I read a lot? I am hapal out-rhyme rhythm Kahlil Gibran!

Not enough! You should speak with their pairs, dialogue will make your heart open, your eyes see more and understand on the surplus-surplus of others.
Shake the young woman.
It is no use, because they were not sincere men.
Hence it out. Out now!
Exit?
Yes.

Young woman is taken aback, his mother's voice became loud and rule. He had placed the book, since the earphone opening spurt earlier R & B music in both ears, and exit a room.

Afternoon sun obstructed by clouds, which come from thin air pollution. But that would help the tropical sun is fierce to become a beautiful ball of fire. In a nearly perfect sphere, but the soft light merahnya skid feet to the sky. Silhuet an eagle appear far higher hover mengincer target. Young women face is blank.
I do not need the sun, I need a man sincere, bisiknya.
So out of the house to the street and see!
For what?

Many men in the street. Catching one. Take any, with the careless eye also terpejam nothing. No matter what his name, how tampangnya, what education, how otaknya and no matter what perasaannya. Attract any men who are tergapai by hand, and he made friends life!

Young women that tecengang. Almost any time he wants to protest. But his mother hurried cut. Origin, his mother go with gentle but firm voice, the origin, this is the most important son, which he really mencintaimu and you own also seriously mencintainya. Because of love, son, love can change everything.
Young woman is taken aback.

And more than that, go before the mother had disputed the children, more than the son, he said with a soft voice, but increasingly more explicit, as a woman, daughter, whoever he is, from where he was, how he is, every woman, son every woman, can make a man, whoever he is, how is he, any work, even kalibernya However, a woman can make any man into a man who bred! ***

WORK : Putu Wijaya